Hi, I'm Mary Smith. If you are going through a difficult time with your spouse, no matter the cause, I feel your pain.
For years, my husband James and I were estranged. Although we never officially separated, we slept in different rooms, had separate bank accounts, and barely talked.
We stayed together for the kids, but one day, our oldest daughter pulled us aside and told us that it was more difficult on them this way. She gave us the business card of a counselor in our area. We started meeting with the counselor and, after a lot of hard work, are now happy together.
Although staying together might not be the right option for you, a counselor can help you work through things and make decisions. I started this site, because no matter what you decide, it's a painful process that no one should go through alone.